After her came
jolly June, arrayed
All in green leaves, as he a player were;
Yet in his time he wrought as well as played,
That by his plough-irons mote right well appear.
Upon a crab he rode, that did him bear,
With crooked crawling steps, an uncouth pace,
And backward rode, as bargemen wont to fare,
Bending their force contrary to their face;
Like that ungracious crew which feigns demurest grace.
Spenser
DESCRIPTIVE
June has now come, bending
beneath her weight of roses, to ornament the halls and
bowers which summer has hung with green. For this is
the Month of Roses, and their beauty and fragrance
conjure up again many in poetical creation which
Memory had buried.
We think of Herrick's Sappho,
and how the roses were always white until they tried
to rival her fair complexion, and, blushing for shame
because they were vanquished, have ever since remained
red; of Shakespeare's Juliet, musing as she leant over
the balcony in the moonlight, and thinking that the
rose 'by any other name would smell as sweet.' They
carry us back to Chaucer's Emilie, whom
we again see
pacing the garden in the early morning, her hair blown
backward, while, as she gathers roses carefully, she
'thrusts among the thorns her little hand.' We again
see Milton's Eve in Eden, standing half-veiled in a
cloud of fragrance �' so thick the blushing roses
round about her blow.' This is the season to wander
into the fields and woods, with a volume of sterling
poetry for companion-ship, and compare the descriptive
passages with the objects that lie around. We never
enjoy reading portions of Spenser's Faery Queen so
much as when among the great green trees in summer. We
then feel his meaning, where he describes arbours that
are not the work of art, 'but by the trees' own
inclination made.' We look up at the great network of
branches, and think how silently they have been
fashioned. Through many a quiet night, and many a
golden dawn, and all day long, even when the twilight
threw her grey veil over them, the work advanced; from
when the warp was formed of tender sprays and tiny
buds, until the woof of leaves was woven with a
shuttle of sunshine and showers, which the unseen wind
sent in and out through the branches.
No human eye could see how the
work was done, for the pattern of leaves was woven
motionless�here a brown bud came, and there a dot of
green was thrown in; yet no hand was visible during
the workmanship, though we know the great Power that
stirred in that mysterious loom, and wove the green
drapery of summer. Now in the woods, like a fair lady
of the olden time peeping through her embowered
lattice, the tall woodbine leans out from among the
leaves, as if to look at the procession that is ever
passing, of golden-belted bees, and gauze-winged
dragon-flies, birds that dart by as if sent with hasty
messages, and butterflies, the gaudy outriders, that
make for themselves a pathway between the overhanging
blossoms. All these she sees from the green turret in
which she is imprisoned, while the bees go sounding
their humming horns through every flowery town in the
forest. The wild roses, compelled to obey the commands
of summer, blush as they expose their beauty by the
wayside, and hurry to hide themselves again amid the
green when the day is done, seeming as if they tried
'to shut, and become buds again.'
Like pillars of fire, the
foxgloves blaze through the shadowy green of the
underwood, as if to throw a light on the lesser
flowers that grow around their feet. Pleasant is it
now after a long walk to sit down on the slope of some
hill, and gaze over the outstretched landscape, from
the valley at our feet to where the river loses itself
in the distant sunshine. In all those widely-spread
farmhouses and cottages�some so far away that they
appear but little larger than mole-hills�the busy stir
of every-day life is going on, though neither sound
nor motion are audible or visible from this green
slope. From those quiet homes move christening,
marrying, and burying processions. Thousands who have
tilled the earth within the space our eye commands, '
now sleep beneath it.' There is no one living who ever
saw yonder aged oak look younger that it does now. The
head lies easy which erected that grey old stile, that
has stood bleaching so many years in sun and wind, it
looks like dried bones; the very step is worn hollow
by the feet of those who have passed away for ever.
How quiet yonder fields appear
through which the brown footpath stretches; there
those that have gone walked and talked, and played,
and made love, and through them led their children by
the hand, to gather the wild roses of June, that still
flower as they did in those very spots where their
grandfathers gathered them, when, a century back, they
were children. And yet it may be that these fields,
which look so beautiful in our eyes, and awaken such
pleasant memories of departed summers, bring back no
such remembrances to the unlettered hind; that he
thinks only of the years he has toiled in them, of the
hard struggle he has had to get bread for his family,
and the aching bones he has gone home with at night.
Perhaps, when he walks out with his children, he
thinks how badly he was paid for plashing that hedge,
or repairing that flowery embankment; how long it took
him to plough or harrow that field; how cold the days
were then, and, when his wants were greatest, what
little wages he received. The flaunting woodbine may
have no charms for his eye, nor the bee humming round
the globe of crimson clover; perhaps he pauses not to
listen to the singing of the birds, but, with eyes
bent on the ground, he ' homeward plods his weary
way.' Cottages buried in woodbine or covered with
roses are not the haunts of peace and homes of love
which poets so often picture, nor are they the gloomy
abodes which some cynical politicians magnify into
dens of misery.
How peaceably yonder village
at the foot of this hill seems to sleep in the June
sunshine, beneath the overshadowing trees, above which
the blue smoke ascends, nothing else seeming to stir!
What rich colours some of those thatched roofs
present�moss and lichen, and stonecrop which is now
one blaze of gold. That white-washed wall, glimmering
through the foliage, just lights up the picture where
it wanted opening; even the sunlight, flashed back
from the windows, lets in golden gleams through the
green. That bit of brown road by the red wall, on one
side of which runs the brook, spanned by a rustic
bridge, is of itself a picture�with the white cow
standing by the gate, where the great elder-tree is
now covered with bunches of creamy-coloured bloom.
Water is always beautiful in a landscape; it is the
glass in which the face of heaven is mirrored, in
which the trees and flowers can see themselves, for
aught we know, so hidden from us in the secret of
their existence and the life they live.
Now, one of those out-of-door
pictures may be seen which almost every landscape
painter has tried to fix on canvas�that of cattle
standing in water at noon-day. We always fancy they
look best in a large pond overhung with trees, that is
placed in a retiring corner of rich pasture lands,
with their broad sweeps of grass and wild flowers. In
a river or a long stream the water stretches too far
away, and mars the snugness of the picture, which
ought to be bordered with green, while the herd is of
various colours. In a pond surrounded with trees we
see the sunlight chequering the still water as it
streams through the branches, while a mass of shadow
lies under the lower boughs�part of it falling on a
portion of the cattle, while the rest stand in a warm,
green light; and should one happen to be red, and
dashed with the sunlight that comes in through the
leaves, it shows such flecks of ruddy gold as no
artist ever yet painted. We see the shadows of the
inverted trees thrown deep down, and below a blue,
unfathomable depth of sky, which conjures back those
ocean chasms that have never yet been sounded.
We now hear that sharp rasping
sound in the fields which the mower makes every time
he whets his scythe, telling us that he has already
cut down myriads of those beautiful wild flowers and
feathered grasses which the morning sun shone upon. We
enter the field, and pick a few fading flowers out "of
the great swathes; and, while watching him at his
work, see how at one sweep he makes a desert, where a
moment before all was brightness and beauty. How one
might moralize over this globe of white clover, which
a bee was rifling of its sweets just before the scythe
swept it down, and dwell upon the homes of
ground-building birds and earth-burrowing animals and
insects, which the destroyer lays bare. But these
thoughts have no place in his mind. He may, while
whetting his scythe, wonder how many more times he
will have to sharpen it before he cuts his way up to
the hedge, where his provision basket, beer bottle,
and the clothes he has thrown off, lie in the shade,
guarded by his dog�and when there slake his thirst.
Many of those grasses which he
cuts down so thoughtlessly are as beautiful as the
rarest flowers that ever bloomed, though they must be
examined minutely for their elegant forms and splendid
colours. No plumage that ever nodded over the brow of
Beauty, not even that of the rare bird of paradise,
can excel the graceful silky sweep of the
feather-grass, which ladies used to wear in their
head-dresses. The silky bent grass, which the least
stir of air sets in motion, is as glossy and beautiful
as the richest satin that ever enfolded the elegant
form of maidenhood. The quaking or tottering grass is
hung with hundreds of beautiful spikelets, which are
all shaken by the least movement of an insect's wing;
and when in motion, the shifting light that plays upon
its many-coloured flowers makes them glitter like
jewels. But let the gentlest breeze that ever blew
breathe through a bed of this beautiful grass, and you
might fancy that thousands of fairy bells were
swinging, and that the hair-like stems were the ropes
pulled by the greenwood elves, which are thinner than
the finest silk.
It has many pretty names, such
as pearl-grass, silk-grass; while the country children
call it Ringing-all-the-bells-in-London, on account of
its purple spikelets being ever in motion. Nothing was
ever yet woven in loom to which art could give such
graceful colouring as is shown in the luminous pink
and dazzling sea-green of the soft meadow-grass; the
flowers spread over a panicle of velvet bloom, which
is so soft and yielding, that the lightest footed
insect sinks into its downy carpeting when passing.
Many grasses which the mower is now sweeping down
would, to the eye of a common observer, appear all
alike; though upon close examination they will be
found to differ as much as one flower does from
another. Amongst these are the fox-tail and other
grasses,which have all round heads, and seem at the
first glance only to vary in length and thickness;
they are also so common, that there is hardly a field
without them. We take up a handful of grass from the
swathe just cut down, and find dozens of these
round-headed flowers in it. One is of a rich golden
green, with a covering of bright silvery hairs, so
thinly interspersed, that they hide not the golden
ground beneath; another is a rich purple tint, that
rivals the glowing bloom of the dark-shaded pansy;
while, besides colours, the stems will be found to
vary, some being pointed and pinched until they
resemble the limbs of a daddy-long-legs. This is the
scented vernal grass, that gives out the rich aroma we
now inhale from the new-mown field. It seldom grows
more than a foot high, and has, as you see, a
close-set panicle, just like wheat; and in these
yellow dots, on the green valves that hold the
flowers, the fragrance is supposed to lie which scents
the June air for miles round when the grass is cut and
dried.
The rough, the smooth, and the
annual meadow - grasses are those which everybody
knows. But for the rough meadow-grass, we should not
obtain so many glimpses of green as are seen in our
squares and streets�for it will grow in the smokiest
of cities; while to the smooth meadow-grass we are
indebted for that first green flush of spring�that
spring green which no dyer can imitate, and which
first shows through the hoary mantle of winter. The
annual meadow-grass grows wherever a pinch of earth
can be found for it to root in. It is the children's
garden in the damp, sunless back yards of our cities;
it springs up between the stones of the pavement, and
grows in the crevices of decaying walls. Neither
summer suns which scorch, nor biting frosts which
blacken, can destroy it; for it seeds eight or nine
months of the year, and, do what you will, is sure to
come up again. Pull it up you cannot, excepting in wet
weather, when all the earth its countless fibres
adhere to comes with it; for it finds nourishment in
everything it lays hold of, nor has it, like some of
the other grasses, to go far into the earth for
support.
In the next field we see the
haymakers hard at work, turning the grass over, and
shaking it up with their forks, or letting it float
loose on the wind, to be blown as far as it can go;
while the air that passes through it carries the
pleasant smell of new-mown hay to the far away fields
and villages it sweeps by. How happy hay-makers always
appear, as if work to them were pleasure; even the
little children, while they laugh as they throw hay
over one another, are unconsciously assisting the
labourers, for it cannot be dispersed too much. What a
blessing it would be if all labour could be made so
pleasant! Some are gathering the hay into windrows,
great long unbroken ridges, that extend from one end
of the field to the other, and look like motion-less
waves in the distance, while between them all the
space is raked up tidily.
Then comes the last process,
to roll those long windrows into haycocks, turning the
hay on their forks over and over, and clearing the
ground at every turn, as boys do the huge snowball,
which it takes four or five of them to move�until the
haycock is as high as a man's head, and not a vestige
of a windrow is left when the work is finished by the
rakers. Rolling those huge haycocks together is hard
work; and when you see it done, you marvel not at the
quantity of beer the men drink, labouring as they do
in the hot open sunshine of June. We then see the
loaded hay wagons leaving the fields, rocking as they
cross the furrows, over which wheels but rarely roll,
moving along green lanes and between high hedgerows,
which take toll from the wains as they pass, until new
hay hangs down from every branch. What labour it would
save the birds in building, if hay was led two or
three months earlier, for nothing could be more soft
and downy for the lining of' their nests than many of
the feathered heads of those dried grasses. Onward
moves the rocking wagon towards the rick-yard, where
the gate stands open, and we can see the men on the
half-formed stack waiting for the coming load.
When the stack is nearly
finished, only a strong man can pitch up a fork full
of hay; and it needs some practice to use the long
forks which are required when the rick has nearly
reached to its fullest height. What a delicious smell
of new-mown hay there will be in every room of that
old farmhouse for days after the stacks are finished;
we almost long to take up our lodging there for a week
or two for the sake of the fragrance. And there, in
the 'home close,' as it is called, sits the milkmaid
on her three-legged stool, which she hides somewhere
under the hedge, that she may not have to carry it to
and fro every time she goes to milk, talking to her
cow while she is milking as if it understood her: for
the flies make it restless, and she is fearful that it
may kick over the contents of her pail. Now she breaks
forth into song�unconscious that she is overheard�the
burthen of which is that her lover may be true, ending
with a wish that she were a linnet, 'to sing her love
to rest,' which he, wearied with his day's labour,
will not require, but will begin to snore a minute
after his tired head presses the pillow.
But we cannot leave the
milkmaid, surrounded with the smell of new-mown hay,
without taking a final glance at the grasses; and when
we state that there are already upwards of two
thousand varieties known and named, and that the
discoveries of every year continue to add to the
number, it will be seen-that the space of a large
volume would be required only to enumerate the
different classes into which they are divided. The
oat-like, the wheat-like, and the water-grasses, of
which latter the tall common seed is the chief, are
very numerous. It is from grasses that we have
obtained the bread we eat, and we have now many
varieties in England, growing wild, that yield small
grains of excellent corn, and that could, by
cultivation, be rendered as valuable as our choicest
cereals. It is through being surrounded by the sea,
and having so few mountain ranges to shut out the
breezes, the sunshine, and the showers, that England
is covered with the most beautiful grasses that are to
be found in the world.
The open sea wooes every wind
that blows, and draws all the showers towards our old
homesteads, and clothes our island with that delicious
green which is the wonder and admiration of
foreigners. It also feeds those flocks and herds which
are our pride; for nowhere else can be seen such as
those pastured on English ground. Our Saxon
forefathers had no other name for grass than that we
still retain, though they made many pleasant allusions
to it in describing the labours of the months�such as
grass-month, milk-month, mow-month, hay-month, and
after-month, or the month after their hay was
harvested. After-month is a word still in use, though
now applied to the second crop of grass, which springs
up after the hay-field has been cleared. None are
fonder than Englishmen of seeing a 'bit of grass'
before their doors.
Look at the retired old
citizen, who spent the best years of his life poring
over ledgers in some half-lighted office in the
neighbourhood of the Bank, how delighted he is with
the little grass-plat which the window of his suburban
retreat opens into. What hours he spends over it,
patting it down with his spade, smoothing it with his
garden-roller; stooping down until his aged back
aches, while clipping it with his shears; then
standing at a distance to admire it; then calling his
dear old wife out to see how green and pretty it
looks. It keeps him in health, for in attending to it
he finds both amusement and exercise; and perhaps the
happiest moments of his life are those passed in
watching his grandchildren roll over it, while his
married sons and daughters sit smiling by his side.
Hundreds of such men, and many such spots, lie
scattered beside the roads that run every way through
the great metropolitan suburbs; and it is pleasant,
when returning from a walk through the dusty roads of
June, to peep over the low walls, or through the
palisades, and see the happy groups sitting in the
cool of evening by the bit of grass before their
doors, and which they call 'going out on the lawn.'
HISTORICAL
Ovid, in his Fasti, makes Juno
claim the honour of giving a name to this month; but
there had been ample time before his day for an
obscurity to invest the origin of the term, and he
lived before it was the custom to investigate such
matters critically. Standing as the fourth month in
the Roman calendar, it was in reality dedicated a
Junioribus-that is, to the junior or inferior branch
of the original legislature of Rome, as May was a
Majoribus, or to the superior branch. 'Romulus
assigned to this month a complement of thirty days,
though in the old Latin or Alban calendar it consisted
of twenty-six only. Numa deprived it of one day, which
was restored by Julius Caesar; since which time it has
remained undisturbed.' �Brady.
CHARACTERISTICS OF
JUNE
Though the summer solstice
takes place on the 21st day, June is only the third
month of the year in respect of temperature, being
preceded in this respect by July and August. The
mornings, in the early part of the month especially,
are liable to be even frosty, to the extensive damage
of the buds of the fruit-trees. Nevertheless, June is
the mouth of greatest summer beauty�the month during
which the trees are in their best and freshest
garniture. 'The leafy month of June,' Coleridge well
calls it, the month when the flowers are at the
richest in hue and profusion. In English landscape,
the conical clusters of the chestnut buds, and the
tassels of the laburnum and lilac, vie above with the
variegated show of wild flowers below. Nature is now a
pretty maiden of seventeen; she may show maturer
charms afterwards, but she can never be again so
gaily, so freshly beautiful. Dr Aiken says justly that
June is in reality, in this climate, what the poets
only dream May to be. The mean temperature of the air
was given by an observer in Scotland as 59
�
Fahrenheit, against 60� for August and 61�
for July.
The sun, formally speaking,
reaches the most northerly point in the zodiac, and
enters the constellation of Cancer, on the 21st of
June; but for several days about that time there is no
observable difference in his position, or his hours of
rising and setting. At Greenwich he is above the
horizon from 3:43 morning, to 8:17 evening, thus
making a day of 16h. 26m. At Edinburgh, the longest
day is about 17� hours. At that season, in
Scotland, there is a glow equal to dawn, in the north,
through the whole of the brief night. The present
writer was able at Edinburgh to read the title-page of
a book, by the light of the northern sky, at midnight
of the 14th of Juno 1849. In Shetland, the light at
mid-night is like a good twilight, and the text of any
ordinary book may then be easily read. It is even
alleged that, by the aid of refraction, and in favourable circumstances, the body
of the sun has been
seen at that season, from the top of a hill in Orkney,
though the fact cannot be said to be authenticated.
MARRIAGE
SUPERSTITIONS AND CUSTOMS
was the month which the Romans
considered the most propitious season of the year for
contracting matrimonial engagements, chosen were l
that of the full moon or the conjunction of the sun
and moon; the month of May was especially to be
avoided, as under the influence of spirits adverse to
happy households.
All these pagan superstitions
were retained in the Middle Ages, with many others
which belonged more particularly to the spirit of
Christianity: people then had recourse to all kinds of
divination, love philters, magical invocations,
prayers, fastings, and other follies, which were
modified according to the country and the individual.
A girl had only to agitate the water in a bucket of
spring-water with her hand, or to throw broken eggs
over another person's head, if she wished to see the
image of the man she should marry. A union could never
be happy if the bridal party, in going to church, met
a monk, a priest, a hare, a dog, cat, lizard, or
serpent; while all would go well if it were a wolf, a
spider, or a toad. Nor was it an unimportant matter to
choose the wedding day carefully; the feast of Saint
Joseph was especially to be avoided, and it is
supposed, that as this day fell in mid-Lent, it was
the reason why all the councils and synods of the
church forbade marriage during that season of fasting;
indeed, all penitential days and vigils throughout the
year were considered unsuitable for these joyous
ceremonies.
The church blamed those
husbands who married early in the morning, in dirty or
negligent attire, reserving their better dresses for
balls and feasts; and the clergy were forbidden to
celebrate the rites after sunset, because the crowd
often carried the party by main force to the
ale-house, or beat them and hindered their departure
from the church until they had paid a ransom. The
people always manifested a strong aversion for badly
assorted marriages. In such cases, the procession
would be accompanied to the altar in the midst of a
frightful concert of bells, sauce-pans, and
frying-pans, or this tumult was reserved for the
night, when the happy couple were settled in their own
house. The church tried in vain to defend widowers and
widows who chose to enter the nuptial bonds a second
time; a synodal order of the Archbishop of Lyons, in
1577, thus describes the conduct it excommunicated: '
Marching in masks, throwing poisons, horrible and
dangerous liquids before the door, sounding
tambourines, doing all kinds of dirty things they can
think of, until they have drawn from the husband large
sums of' money by force.'
A considerable sum of money
was anciently put into a purse or plate, and presented
by the bridegroom to the bride on the wedding-night,
as a sort of purchase of her person; a custom common
to the Greeks as well as the Ro-mans, and which seems
to have prevailed among the Jews and many Eastern
nations. It was changed in the Middle Ages, and in the
north of Europe, for the morgengabe, or morning
present; the bride having the privilege, the morning
after the wedding-day, of asking for any sum of money
or any estate that she pleased, and which could not in
honour be refused by her husband. The demand at times
became really serious, if the wife were of an
avaricious temper. Something of the same kind
prevailed in England under the name of the Dow Purse.
A trace of this is still kept up in Cumberland where
the bridegroom provides himself with gold and crown
pieces, and, when the service reaches the point, '
With all my worldly goods I thee endow,' he takes up
the money, hands the clergyman his fee, and pours the
rest into a handkerchief which is held by the
bridesmaid for the bride. When Clovis was married to
the Princess Clotilde, he offered, by his proxy, a sou
and a denier, which became the marriage offering by
law in France; and to this day pieces of money are
given to the bride, varying only in value according to
the rank of the parties.
How the ring came to be used
is not well ascertained, as in former days it did not
occupy its present prominent position, but was given
with other presents to mark the completion of a
contract. Its form is intended as a symbol of
eternity, and of the intention of both parties to keep
for ever the solemn covenant into which they have
entered before God, and of which it is a pledge. When
the persons were betrothed as children, among the
Anglo-Saxons, the bride-groom gave a pledge, or 'wed'
(a term from which we derive the word wedding); part
of this wed consisted of a ring, which was placed on
the maiden's right hand, and there religiously kept
until transferred to the other hand at the second
ceremony. Our marriage service is very nearly the same
as that used by our forefathers, a few obsolete words
only being changed.
The bride was taken 'for
fairer, for fouler, for better, for worse;' and
promised 'to be buxom and bonny' to her future
husband. The bridegroom put the ring on each of the
bride's left-hand fingers in turn, saying at the
first, 'in the name of the Father;' at the second, 'in the name of the Son,' at
the third, ' in the name
of the Holy Ghost;' and at the fourth, 'Amen.' The
father presented his son-in-law with one of his
daughter's shoes as a token of the transfer of
authority, and the bride was made to feel the change
by a blow on her head given with the shoe. The husband
was bound by oath to use his wife well, in failure of
which she might leave him; yet as a point of honour he
was allowed 'to bestow on his wife and apprentices
moderate castigation.' An old Welsh law tells us that
three blows with a broomstick, on any 'part of the
person except the head, is a fair allowance;' and
another provides that the stick be not longer than the
husband's arm, nor thicker than his middle finger.
An English wedding, in the
time of good Queen Bess, was a joyous public festival;
among the higher ranks, the bridegroom presented the
company with scarves, gloves, and garters of the
favourite colours of the wedding pair; and the
ceremony wound up with. banquetings, masques,
pageants, and epithalamiums. A gay procession formed a
part of the humbler marriages; the bride was led to
church between two boys wearing bride-laces and
rosemary tied about their silken sleeves, and before
her was carried a silver cup filled with wine, in
which was a large branch of gilded rosemary, hung
about with silk ribbons of all colours. Next came the
musicians, and then the bridesmaids, some bearing
great bridecakes, others garlands of gilded wheat;
thus they marched to church amidst the shouts and
benedictions of the spectators.
The penny weddings, at which
each of the guests gave a contribution for the feast,
were reprobated by the straiter-laced sort as leading
to disorders and licentiousness; but it was found
impossible to suppress them. All that could be done
was to place restrictions upon the amount allowed to
be given; in Scotland five shillings was the limit.
The customs of marrying and
giving in marriage in Sweden, in former years, were of
a somewhat barbarous character; it was beneath the
dignity of a Scandinavian warrior to court a lady's
favour by gallantry and submission�he waited until she
had bestowed her affections on another, and was on her
way to the marriage ceremony, when, collecting his
faithful followers, who were always ready for the
fight, they fell upon the wedding cortege, and the
stronger carried away the bride. It was much in favour
of this practice that marriages were always celebrated
at night. A pile of lances is still preserved behind
the altar of the ancient church of Husaby, in Gothland,
into which were fitted torches, and which were borne
before the bridegroom for the double purpose of giving
light and protection. It was the province of the
groomsmen, or, as they were named, 'best men,' to
carry these; and the strongest and stoutest of the
bridegroom's friends were chosen for this duty. Three
or four days before the marriage, the ceremony of the
bride's bath took place, when the lady went in great
state to the bath, accompanied by all her friends,
married and single; the day closing with a banquet and
ball.
On the marriage-day the young
couple sat on a raised platform, under a canopy of
silk; all the wedding presents being arranged on a
bench covered with silk, and consisting of plate,
jewels, and money. To this day the bridegroom has a
great fear of the trolls and sprites which still
inhabit Sweden; and, as an antidote against their
power, he sews into his clothes various strong
smelling herbs, such. as garlick, chives, and
rosemary. The young women always carry bouquets of
these in their hands to the feast, whilst they deck
themselves out with loads of jewellery, gold bells,
and grelots as large as small apples, with chains,
belts, and stomachers. No bridegroom could be induced
on that day to stand near a closed gate, or where
cross roads meet; he says he takes these precautions '
against envy and malice.' On the other hand, if the
bride be prudent, she will take care when at the altar
to put her right foot before that of the bridegroom,
for then she will get the better of her husband during
her married life; she will also be studious to get the
first sight of him before he can see her, because that
will pre-serve her influence over him. It is customary
to fill the bride's pocket with bread, which she gives
to the poor she meets on her road to church, a
misfortune being averted with every alms bestowed; but
the beggar will not eat it, as he thereby brings
wretchedness on himself. On their return from church,
the bride and bridegroom must visit their cowhouses
and stables, that the cattle may thrive and multiply.
In Norway, the marriages of
the bonder or peasantry are conducted with very gay
ceremonies, and in each parish there is a set of
ornaments for the temporary use of the bride,
including a showy coronal and girdle; so that the
poorest woman in the land has the gratification of
appearing for one day in her life in a guise which she
probably thinks equal to that of a queen. The museum
of national antiquities at Copenhagen contains a
number of such sets of bridal decorations which were
formerly used in Denmark. In the International
Exhibition at London, in 1862, the Norwegian court
showed the model of a peasant couple, as dressed and
decorated for their wedding; and every beholder must
have been arrested by its homely splendours. Annexed
is a cut representing the bride.
In pagan days, when Rolf
married King Erik's daughter, the king and queen sat
throned in state, whilst courtiers passed in front,
offering gifts of oxen, cows, swine, sheep,
sucking-pigs, geese, and even cats. A shield, sword,
and axe were among the bride's wedding outfit, that
she might, if necessary, defend herself from her
husband's blows.
In the vast steppes of
south-eastern Russia, on the shores of the Caspian and
Black Sea, marriage ceremonies recall the patriarchal
customs of the earliest stages of society. The evening
before the day when the affianced bride is given to
her husband, she pays visits to her master and the
inhabitants of the village, in the simple dress of a
peasant, consisting of a red cloth jacket, descending
as low as the knees, a very short white petticoat,
fastened at the waist with a red woollen scarf, above
which is an embroidered chemise. The legs, which are
always bare above the ankle, are sometimes protected
by red or yellow morocco boots. The girls of the
village who accompany her are, on the contrary,
attired in their best, recalling the old paintings of
Byzantine art, where the Virgin is adorned with a
coronal. They know how to arrange with great art the
leaves and scarlet berries of various kinds of trees
in their hair, the tresses of which are plaited as a
crown, or hang down on the shoulders. A necklace of
pearls or coral is wound at least a dozen times round
the neck, on which they hang religious medals, with.
enamel paintings imitating mosaic.
At each house the betrothed
throws herself on her knees before the head of it, and
kisses his feet as she begs his pardon; the fair
penitent is immediately raised and kissed, receiving
some small present, whilst she in return gives a small
roll of bread, of a symbolic form. On her return home
all her beautiful hair is cut off, as henceforth she
must wear the platoke, or turban, a woollen or linen
shawl which is rolled round the head, and is the only
distinction between the married and unmarried. It is
invariably presented by the husband, as the Indian
shawl among ourselves; which, however, we have
withdrawn from its original destination, which ought
only to be a head-dress. The despoiled bride expresses
her regrets with touching grace, in one of their
simple songs: 'Oh, my curls, my fair golden hair! Not
for one only, not for two years only, have I arranged
you�every Saturday you were bathed, every Sunday you
were ornamented, and to-day, in a single hour, I must
lose you!' The old woman whose duty it is to roll the
turban round the brow, wishing her happiness, says, '
I cover your head with the platoke:, my sister, and I
wish you health and happiness. Be pure as water, and
fruitful as the earth.' When the marriage is over, the
husband takes his wife to the inhabitants of the
village, and shows them the change of dress effected
the night before.
Among the various tribes of
Asia none are so rich or well-dressed as the
Armenians; to them belongs chiefly the merchandise of
precious stones, which they export to Constantinople.
The Armenian girl whose marriage is to be described
had delicate flowers of celestial blue painted all
over her breast and neck, her eye-brows were dyed
black, and the tips of her fingers and nails of a
bright orange. She wore on each hand valuable rings
set with precious stones, and round her neck a string
of very fine turquoises; her shirt was of the finest
spun silk, her jacket and trousers of cashmere of a
bright colour. The priest and his deacon arrived; the
latter bringing a bag containing the sacerdotal
garments, in which the priest arrayed himself, placing
a mitre ornamented with precious stones on his head,
and a collar of metal,�on which the twelve apostles
were represented in bas-relief, �round his neck. He
began by blessing a sort of temporary altar in the
middle of the room; the mother of the bride took her
by the hand, and leading her forward, she bowed at the
feet of her future husband, to show that she
acknowledged him as lord and master. The priest,
placing their hands in each other, pronounced a
prayer, and then drew their heads together until they
touched three times, while with his right hand he made
a motion as if blessing them; a second time their
hands were joined, and the bridegroom was asked, 'Will
you be her husband?' will,' he answered, raising at
the same time the veil of the bride, in token that she
was now his, and letting it fall again. The priest
then took two wreaths of flowers, ornamented with a
quantity of hanging gold threads, from the hands of
the deacon, put them on the heads of the married
couple, changed them three times from one head to the
other, repeating each time, 'I unite you, and bind you
one to another �live in peace.' Such are the customs
in the very land where man was first created; and,
among nations who change so little as those in the
East, we may fairly believe them to be among the most
ancient.
WHIT-SUNDAY
WOMAN-SHOW IN RUSSIA
A custom has long prevailed at
St. Petersburg which can only be regarded as a relic
of a rude state of society; for it is nothing more or
less than a show of marriageable women or girls, with
a view of obtaining husbands. The women certainly have
a choice in the matter, and in this respect they are
not brought to market in the same sense as fat cattle
or sheep; but still it is only under the influence of
a very coarse estimate of the sex that the custom can
prevail. The manner of managing the show in past years
was as follows. On Whit Sunday afternoon the Summer
Garden, a place of popular resort in St. Petersburg,
was thronged with bachelors and maidens, looking out
for wives and husbands respectively. The girls put on
their best adornments; and these were sometimes more
costly than would seem to be suitable for persons in
humble life, were it not that this kind of pride is
much cherished among the peasantry in many countries.
Bunches of silver tea-spoons, a large silver ladle, or
some other household luxury, were in many instances
held in the hand, to denote that the maiden could
bring some-thing valuable to her husband. The young
men, on their part, did not fail to look their best.
The maidens were accompanied by their parents, or by
some elder member of their family, in order that
everything might be conducted in a decorous manner.
The bachelors, strolling and
sauntering to and fro, would notice the maidens as
they passed, and the maidens would blushingly try to
look their best. Supposing a young man were favourably
impressed with what he saw, he did not immediately
address the object of his admiration, but had a little
quiet talk with one of the seniors, most probably a
woman. He told her his name, residence, and
occupation; ho gave a brief inventory of his worldly
goods, naming the number of roubles (if any) which he
had been able to save. On his side he asked questions,
one of which was sure to relate to the amount of dowry
promised for the maiden. The woman with whom this
conversation was held was often no relative to the
maiden, but a sort of marriage broker or saleswoman,
who conducted these delicate negotiations, either in
friendliness or for a fee. If the references on either
side were unsatisfactory, the colloquy ended without
any bargain being struck; and, even if favourable,
nothing was immediately decided. Many admirers for the
same girl might probably come forward in this way. In
the evening a family conclave was held concerning the
chances of each maiden, at which the offer of each
bachelor was calmly considered, chiefly in relation to
the question of roubles. The test was very little
other than that ' the highest bidder shall be the
purchaser.' A note was sent to the young man whose
offer was deemed most eligible; and it was very rarely
that the girl made any objection to the spouse thus
selected for her.
The St. Petersburg
correspondent of one of the London newspapers, who was
at the Woman Show on Whit Sunday, 1861, stated that
the custom has been gradually declining for many
years; that there were very few candidates for
matrimony on that occasion; and that the total
abandonment of the usage was likely soon to occur,
under the influence of opinion more con-genial to the
tastes of Europeans generally.
CREELING THE
BRIDEGROOM
A curious custom in connexion
with marriage prevailed at one time in Scotland, and,
from the manner in which it was carried out, was
called 'Creeling the Bridegroom.' The mode of
procedure in the village of Galashiels was as follows.
Early in the day after the marriage, those interested
in the proceeding assembled at the house of the
newly-wedded couple, bringing with them a 'creel,' or
basket, which they filled with stones. The young
husband, on being brought to the door, had the creel
firmly fixed upon his back, and with it in this
position had to run the round of the town, or at least
the chief portion of it, followed by a number of men
to see that he did not drop his burden; the only
condition on which he was allowed to do so being that
his wife should come after him, and kiss him. As
relief depended altogether upon the wife, it would
sometimes happen that the husband did not need to run
more than a few yards; but when she was more than
ordinarily bashful, or wished to have a little sport
at the expense of her lord and master�which it may be
supposed would not unfrequently be the case�he had to
carry his load a considerable distance. This custom
was very strictly enforced; for the person who was
last creeled had charge of the ceremony, and he was
naturally anxious that no one should escape. The
practice, as far as Galashiels was concerned, came to
an end about sixty years ago, in the person of one
Robert Young, who, on the ostensible plea of a 'sore
back,' lay a-bed all the day after his marriage, and
obstinately refused to get up and be eroded; he had
been twice married before, and no doubt felt that he
had had enough of eroding.
MARRIAGE LAWS AND CUSTOMS IN THE EAST OF ENGLAND
There is a saying of Hesiod's
(Works and Days, 1. 700), to the effect that it
is better to marry a woman from the neighbourhood,
than one from a distance. With this may be compared
the Scotch proverb, 'It is better to marry over the
midden, than over the moor,' i.e. to take for your
wife one who lives close by�the other side of the
muckheap�than to fetch one from the other side of the
moor. I am not aware of the existence of any proverb
to this effect in East Anglia; but the usual practice
of the working classes is in strict accordance with
it. Whole parishes have intermarried to such an extent
that almost everybody is related to, or connected with
everybody else. One curious result of this is that no
one is counted as a 'relation' beyond first cousins,
for if 'relationship' went further than that it might
almost as well include the whole parish.
A very strong inducement to
marry a near neighbour, lies, no doubt, in the great
advantage of having a mother, aunt, or sister at hand
whose help can be obtained in case of sickness; I have
frequently heard complaints of the inconvenience of
'having nobody belonging to them,' made by sick
people, whose near relations live at a distance, and
who in consequence are obliged to call in paid help
when ill.
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